What is a Cuckquean?

Definition of Cuckquean: noun - a woman whose husband is unfaithful to her

This is the most basic definition. In terms of a relationship, many would consider a girlfriend with an unfaithful boyfriend to be a cuckquean as well. In terms of a fetish, Cuckqueaning can involve aspects of humiliation, forced bisexuality and the inclusion of other fetishes. A cuckquean fetishist is aware of her spouse's activity, most likely actively encouraging it, and derives sexual pleasure from it. A Cuckquean is a female version of a Cuckold.

What are the benefits of a Cuckquean relationship?

There are many benefits for both the man and woman in a cuckold relationship, some of which I have listed below.

Men: Women:

Who am I?

I am the male in a cuckquean relationship. I have been with my current girlfriend for over 7 years. In that time, I have been cheating on her off and on for the last 5 years. I have an extremely high sex drive and I just cannot get enough. I love my girlfriend very much but sneaking around and lying made me feel bad and was taking a toll on our relationship. After searching around on the internet, I discovered Cuckolding and was completely facinated but surprised at the little information available regarding Cuckqueaning. It seems weird that with the tendency for men to be dominant and to cheat in relationships, that more men are not getting their wives and girlfriends into this fetish. It is also surprising that women, who tend to be submissive and have bisexual fantasies are not more interested in this as well. That being said, I wanted to make this website to share information regarding Cuckqueaning.

What about...? FAQ's

Do you not love your girlfriend? I am completely in love my girlfriend. I also find her amazing sexually. That being said, love and sex are completely different. As a man, I cheat, all men do (See Do All Men Cheat?). This does not change the fact that I am in love with my girlfriend.

More to follow...

How to begin a Cuckquean Relationship


The first step you need to do is decide if this is important to you. Most men in this day and age are expected to be in a monogamous, long term relationship where it is not unusual to cheat. It is actually normal to cheat, the vast majority of men cheat or would cheat if given the opportunity. So those that have been faithful only have been because the perfect opportunity has not come up. Some women will not accept any form of infidelity, which is unrealistic. If you are with a woman like this, pushing a cuckquean agenda may end your relationship. Needless to say when you cheat at some point down the road, if it is discovered, your relationship will be over as well. So you need to decide if you are willing to make Cuckqueaning an important part of your relationship.

The second step is honesty. Talk to your wife, girlfriend, girl you are dating. Let them know about cuckqueaning, see what they have to say.

Lastly, you need to put it to action. Ultimately, the decision to cuckquean is completely up to you. Technically, just cheating makes your girlfriend or wife a cuckquean. Just know you have this power but it is very important to get your significant other on board if you are looking for maintaining a long term relationship.


I recommend just talking to your boyfriend, husband, guy you are dating and just letting him know about cuckqueaning and that you are interested in it. Not all guys will immediately be accepting of this but most will if you admit you are totally on board with it. The reasons a man may be hesitant are as follows: thinks the girl is tricking him, thinks she will just get upset later about it, thinks the girl cheated on him and feels bad so is trying to make up for it... etc those are just a few reasons. If you talk it out with him most guys will come to their senses.

Where can I find more information about Cuckquean relationships?

Wikipedia: Cuckquean

Do All Men Cheat?

Yes, of course they do! Men are genetically made to mate with as many partners as possible. Women need to accept that. If you're going to be married to somebody, you need to know that men are not meant to be with one woman. Men can totally love their spouse and still sleep with other women. That urge will always be there if you're a man. You can love your wife 100 percent and still stray. This is not the same for women, women do not have this genetic need and the number of women who cheat is vastly lower than that of men. See the chart and statistics below.

I have compiled data from leading studies on cheating, medical conditions, attraction and more to put together a comprehensive "How likely is a man to be a cheater". The pie chart gives you the basic statistics. The two following line graphs narrow down the percentage of non cheating men further.

So yes, not all men cheat, but statistically, so many do, its safe to assume all men cheat in straight monogamous relationships. To women reading this, you are probably shocked but isn't it better to know the truth? To men, if you have felt bad about cheating... don't! It's perfectly natural, just like eating and breathing. Obviously, straight, monogamous relationships where fidelity is expected on the male partner are just not realistic. A cuckquean relationship allows for increased open communication, removes lying, and allows a stronger and more intimate bond to form between a couple.

Ancedotal Evidence:
"I have been in four long term relationships throughout my life. I ended up cheating in all of them. It wasn't that I was unhappy or not attractive to my girlfriends but I just couldn't turn down an opportunity." - Mike, 31

"Everyone knows me as a 'good' guy. I never thought I would cheat, but one day the opportunity presented itself without warning and I was surprised at what I did. My girlfriend of 5 years would be shocked if she ever found out." - Jared, 25

"I recently got married but the urge for me to sleep with another woman has been increasing to the point where I am getting girls phone numbers and taking them out on the weekends. I slept with another woman right before our wedding but I thought being married would change things. It hasn't!" - Marcus, 28

More Info:
Why Men Will ALWAYS Cheat (Even if they love their partners)

Cuckquean Quotes

Goldie Hawn: "I don't believe we own anybody," the actress said in a Vanity Fair interview. "I don't think Kurt sexually only has eyes for me...The reality of him going out, of traveling, of seeing a woman... I think it's kind of unnatural not to have those tendencies," Adds Kurt, "Men are not suppose to see one woman and only desire one woman...that's just science. If the species doesn't mutate, it'll die...This is a man. That is what he is on earth for."